This was a tough week! A lot of headache, stress and a feeling of “I don’t have enough time”. I am not done with my DMP yet and when I was going to write on it again, I couldn’t get it out of the course platform, technical issues … This week the “I give up and quit!”-energy have been strong in me. In different parts of my life. BUT I didn’t quit! I took a decision to not give up, but instead give it 100 %. The DMP = Definite Major Purpose or Dharma. The task is to write your DMP specific, realistic, SMART and splashed with emotions. The DMP shall also meet our Personal Pivotal Needs. On my DMP-version right now I have goals about writing a script for my coming book, and to do it first, then go out interacting with people on social media, my blog and to do lectures about the specific topic of the book.
If you remember, in week 2, I really surprised myself. We did an exercise where we would write down seven needs, with our non-dominant hand, closed our eyes for 20 seconds, opened our eyes and without thinking just marked our 2 Personal Pivotal Needs. One of them I could understand, but the other one I did not expect at all. That was the one that my inner voice, before the exercise, said something like this about: “Nope, it’s definitely not this one!” So interesting! And that need is – Helping others.
This week I went to see my body coach/mentor (The best Mats Almström – Move2Life/SpaceofDiscovery) who helps me with different things to heal my body. I got there with my headache from h*ll and was expecting a physical treatment. We did the physical stuff as usual BUT we also had a talk about the cause of my pain. He easily pinpointed some sources of pain and we found a PASSION! We found an important passion in my life that I wasn’t aware of, and it is to INTERACT with people. The opposite of that, for me, is ISOLATION. And what have I been focusing on when it comes to create/build my life? To be able to have freedom to work from home, and focusing on writing my book, by myself, at home in isolation … And I doesn’t work … No energy, focus or joy. Only stress, and no results.
So, after this breakthrough I directly saw it from a different view, so grateful for the insight. So now I go to my work with the focus of serving/helping people, to give service with a smile. I start blogging, interacting on social media and give talks first. Because it is my need to help people, and my passion is to interact. The book is coming along the way, I am sure. I realized that the writing I actually DO, with JOY, is when I participate in two different anthologies. We are 13 women from all over the world who is writing a book together. THAT is fun, expansive and an interacting co-creating way of writing.
So sometimes you have a Breakdown, a Breakthrough and find your Passion!
More PASSION to the People ❤️🔥
Lots of Love //Malin